By avdesing on Skatehive
Secrets require two things: a sealed mouth and quiet writing, in order to be true to oneself and others. That is why sharing experiences can be better and help others. I believe that people can change, as long as they want to, set their minds to it and make the effort. Change is always possible, especially when the results in life are not what we want or expect. Many people say that change is impossible or that at a certain age it is not possible. I believe that it is a lack of effort and willpower. If we do not like things the way they are, we can make them different, at least those things that are within our control. Not doing so is for some reason, comfort or a victim mentality. I have changed a lot in my life; there is not even a shadow of who I used to be. The reason I did it is because I felt that the old me was not myself, as if the real me was imprisoned inside another me forged by ideas, beliefs, and education. Perhaps I used to have a victim mentality, it's very possible. I j