By awulonualex on Skatehive
Life sometimes feels like a journey that demands a clear pathway, a carefully drawn map from where we are to where we want to be in the future. Society frequently tells us that by a certain age we should have a plan, career goals, financial stability, relationships, family and kids and a vision for the future. Yet, the truth is that many people walk through life quietly admitting to themselves: I haven’t got a plan. Like it’s really obvious here in Nigeria many youths still have that awkward feeling that they are yet to have a plan. Not having a plan can feel scary. It may bring uncertainty, doubt, and the pressure of comparison, peer pressure, and depression may come in at this point leading to trying to do some awful things in other to meet up with your friends or age grade. When friends and peers seem to know exactly what they are doing, the person without a plan might feel lost or left behind. Questions begin to surface from parents and friends, What am I supposed to do? Where am I