By dwayne16 on Skatehive
No one truly cares or understands you. Other then family or the person who realises your worth and you love enough to have kids with no one has the heart and will to truly keep you in mind for whatever reason. Friends will only care when it’s convenient for them. And as absurd as that sounds, that’s the brutal truth. “Friends” should be buddies. Not just gist partners. Or a transactional link. And definitely not a shoulder to lean on either. They are simply pals that you have fun associating with and are willing to help with little things here and there. A true pal that you relate with well. But it shouldn’t extend beyond that. Trust is fragile and putting it someone who shares no relative blood-bond or permanent associative relationship with you is a risk. Many friendships fade when circumstances change. Here’s why. Humans have this inherent selfish trait. We don’t truly care about the wellbeing of another person. To generate emotional energy and constant support is a burden for most.