By janitzearratia on Skatehive
_ Uffff, of course I've been touched by people in my very close environment with abusive behavior @irenenavarroart. It is not an easy thing to learn to handle this type of abusive behavior and intrusions such as respecting visiting hours, sleep, family weekend, things like that. How do I handle it? I do it considering what I can afford and what I can't, based in my criterion of values those that are indispensable, desirable, negotiable and non-negotiable. Sometimes my tolerance for this kind of abusive behavior is zero.. and when it's like that I don't make decisions, because my clarity is clouded with my dark glasses. In addition, we are not the same every day, nor do we see things with the same perspective. So it is valid to feel like this in the face of social pressure. Now, just as we can't control who we work with, stay in a hotel, run a marathon, or study with, we also don't choose family, and neighbors. The most we can do is to stop at the choice of the institute where to study,