By juwon-btc on Skatehive
I think I would say asking for help is not something that comes easy for me at all. It is just one of those things I naturally struggle with, and if I am being honest, it mostly comes from how I see it in my head. To me, asking someone for help sometimes feels like I am disturbing them or putting them in an uncomfortable position. I just start thinking like, what if they are busy, or what if they already have their own problems they are dealing with, and now I am coming to add mine on top of everything." That feeling alone can already stop me from even trying to ask. Another thing is the uncertainty that comes with it. There are situations where I am not even sure if the person would actually help me or not, and instead of risking that awkward moment or possible rejection, I just decide to keep quiet. I would rather figure things out on my own than put myself in a position where I might feel embarrassed or disappointed. To be honest, that feeling of asking and then getting turned down