By mamaemigrantefit on Skatehive
People say it all depends on the lens through which you view things, and in my case, there are no gray areas: it’s either black or white. I always said that anyone who wasn’t for me was against me, but now I’ve added a third option: if they’re neither for nor against me, I simply don’t care about them, or they don’t exist to me. And that’s exactly what’s happened at home in situations I never thought would arise. My oldest son stopped mattering to me, just like my cat, who only came around for food and water. It’s a strange process, because I love them both, but I value my peace of mind more. Spanish Dicen que todo depende de la perspectiva desde la que se vean las cosas y, en mi caso, no hay zonas grises: o es blanco o es negro. Siempre he dicho que quien no está a mi favor está en mi contra, pero ahora he añadido una tercera opción: si no están ni a mi favor ni en mi contra, simplemente no me importan, o es como si no existieran para mí. Y eso es exactamente lo que ha pasado en casa,