By sherah on Skatehive
You can feel sad and still be able to give yourself a break. The craziest thing about life is that each of us has our problems spelled out for us. What you are facing might be different from mine, but we can agree that we are all facing something. It's probably best if we sit with ourselves and acknowledge this fact. There's no point looking at your neighbor's grass and wishing you had their lives. There's every tendency that if you had their lives, you wouldn't be able to pull through like they do. We are built differently, and there is so much we can handle. You shouldn't be caught trying to rain advice for situations you have not been in before. You have no experience whatsoever to advise someone on matters that you haven't directly felt or experienced. It is only the person who wears the shoes that knows where it pinches, they say. Reality grabs us by the balls, and whether we like it or not, our problems have been shared based on the ones we can handle. And sometimes, we are our o