By treasuree on Skatehive
Lately, one thing that I have been learning and also unlearning at the same time Is the habit of trying to please everyone around me, so for a very long time, I did not even realize how much I was even doing it, i always wanted people to feel comfortable, happy, and satisfied with me, even if it meant that I was ignoring what I actually wanted or how I truly felt. So i used to think that making everyone happy at my own expense was the right thing to do, if someone came and asked for help, I would immediately say yes without thinking twice, If someone expected something from me, I would try my best to meet that expectation, even when it would be very inconvenient for me, so in my mind then I felt that if I disappointed people, they might think that I am a bad person. But over time I started noticing that constantly trying to please everyone was actually very exhausting, I See sometimes I would agree to things that I really did not want to do, and other times I would now decide to stay q